Ethan Tomlinson’s Personalized Bar Mitzvah Page

ETHAN, use this page 3-4 times each week to prepare for your Bar Mitzvah. To ensure simcha success, please use the tools and downloadable items provided here to learn and practice your training assignments between lessons. For questions, e-mail me at cantor@kehillatbethisrael.com or call/text me at 613-327-3984. It is your responsibility to check this page to ensure it’s working properly right after each lesson, and let Cantor Green know if there’s a problem right away.

VERY IMPORTANT – MUST READ: KBI B’nei Mitzvah Handbook ONLINE
Click here to confirm you’ve read and understood the entire handbook (required).

Bar Mitzvah Date: Saturday, June 13, 2026
PARASHAT SH’LACH
28 Sivan, 5786
(M’var’chim HaChodesh Tammuz)

Tutoring Schedule – Starting June 17, 2025: Tuesdays, 4:10-4:30pm in Cantor Green’s office @ KBI.

DATE/TIME GOALS HOMEWORK ASSIGNED
Tu, June 24, 2025

6:30-7:15pm

Cantor’s Office

Intro to B’nei Mitzvah Process

Intro to Webpage

Goal Setting

STUDY METHOD (always have your printouts/pages in front of you)

1. In your first homework session, Listen to the assigned audio files (or assigned part thereof) at least 15 times in a row. Let it sink in! Best practice is to listen a couple more times in a second sitting before trying to sing along.

2. Sing along with the audio files many times until it is identical, smooth and confident. If there are glitches, use the slider to “rewind” and review a word or two at a time until identical. You’ll know you’re ready for step 3 when the audio recording feels too slow or is ‘holding you back’.

3. Sing the whole assignment without the audio file (as you will in your next lesson).

Use this approach every week, and knock my socks off with how well you know it!

AND, 4. every week, you MUST review at least once, everything learned to date, and FIX any glitches.

Tu, June 17

4:10-4:30pm

Review already-known Torah blessings, talk about choreography of them.

Prepare Torah Trope

Learn Torah Trope. See below, in the downloads section, or:

Torah Trope (PDF | Torah Trope MP3)

Tu, June 24

4:10-4:30pm

Write name, phone number, and email address on BM folder (provided)

Review Torah Blessings

Review Torah Trope

Prepare Maftir 28:37-38

Learn Maftir 28:37-38 using the links for “maftir” in the downloads section below. Use the homework technique above, and try to emulate exactly what you hear as the notes for your maftir!
We, July 2

5:40-6pm

Review Maftir to date

Prepare Haftara Trope

Provide Aliya 5 (9 p’sukim)

Ethan learned the entire maftir (experienced a bit because it’s the 3rd paragraph of the Sh’ma), including from the STA”M side.

Keep it fresh, review it every week, and as it becomes more ingrained, every second week, until your bar mitzvah

If you can, learn Aliya 5 (or some of it) on your own during summer break (Ethan requested!).  The Aliya 5 materials are below in the downloads section

Summer Break
Tu, Aug 5
Tu, Aug 12
NO LESSONS – CJG away, but PLEASE DO HOMEWORK AT RIGHT IN TIME FOR NEXT LESSON, Tu, Aug. 19. ===> Keep learning or smoothing out Aliya 5

If you haven’t already, learn Haftara Trope sheet (use the PDF/MP3 at the top of the Downloads section).

If you’ve already learned the Haftara Trope sheet, go on to learn the Blessing before Haftara (which uses the Haftara Trope you learned).

Tu, Aug. 19

4:50-5:10pm

Review Maftir from STA”M side

Review Aliya 5 to date

Review Haftara Trope sheet

Prepare Blessing before Haftara

Learn Blessing before Haftara

If you get through that quickly and are ready to move forward, see if you can learn the Haftara verse 2:1 from the audio files below. The trope matches your blessing (and the haftara trope sheet)

At the least, read through the haftara’s English translation on your haftara packet.

Tu, Aug 26

4:10-4:30pm

Ethan didn’t make it to the lesson today, but please do the homework this week at right ===>

Review Blessing before haftara

Review Haftara to date if you had a chance to start learning it.

Prepare Haftara [whatever is next]

Learn Haftara:

– If you haven’t yet done so, learn 2:1 (using the audio file for the Haftara, below).

– If you’ve done that already, 2:2 and 2:3 (only up to leimor, if all of 2:3 it too much)

Tu, Aug 2

4:10-4:30pm

Review Haftara to date with blessing

Prepare more Haftara (depending on how much you’ve learned since we last met)

Learn Haftara 2:1-3
Tu, Sep 9

4:10-4:30pm

Review Haftara to date with blessing

Prepare Haftara 2:4-6

Review Maftir & Chamishi aliyot

Learn Haftara 2:4-5

If you have time after that is learned well, try adding 2:6.

Then, smooth out Haftara 2:1-3

We, Sep 17

5:20-5:40pm

Review Haftara to date

Prepare Haftara 2:7-12 (or 11 if that’s too much) over the next two weeks.

No lesson next week because of Rosh hashanah.

CJG to arrange for a different teacher during rest of Holy Days period. Stay tuned for emails.

**Th, Oct 16

**4:20-4:40pm

Review Haftara to (entire)

Prepare Blessings after haftara (all 4)

Learn as much of the “Blessings after Haftara” as possible without overwhelming yourself. Amazing work. What progress!!
We, Oct 22

5:20-5:40pm

We, Nov 5

4:20-4:40pm

Review Blessings after Haftara

Remind to review Haftara about every 2 weeks from now on

Prepare Ein Kamocha & Vay’hi Binsoa

Learn Ein Kamocha paragraph this week.
We, Nov. 12 NO LESSON – CJG AT RABBINICAL SCHOOL CONFERERENCE, but please do homework ===> Learn Vay’hi Binsoa Ha’aron
We, Nov 19

4:20-4:40pm

Review Torah Service to date

Prepare Bei Ana Racheitz

If time, Prepare Sh’ma/Echad/Gad’lu

Learn B’rich Sh’meih & Bei Ana Racheitz

Learn Sh’ma/Echad/Gad’lu (practice with a small bow for gad’lu Ladonai Iti.

If you have the time, you could go ahead to L’Cha Adonai

We, Nov. 26

4:20-4:40pm

Review Torah service to date

Prepare L’Cha Adonai

Learn L’Cha Adonai
We, Dec 3

4:20-4:40pm

Review L’Cha Adonai

Review first part of Torah service

Prepare Chatzi Kaddish before Maftir

Learn Chatzi Kaddish before Maftir
We, Dec 10

4:20-4:40pm

Review Haftara unit

Review Chatzi Kaddish before maftir

Prepare Ashrei

ETHAN WAS SICK. NO LESSON.
We, Jan 14

4:20-4:40pm

Review Haftara unit

Review Chatzi Kaddish before maftir

Review Ashrei

Learn Y’hal’lu / Hodo Al Eretz

If you get through that, start Mizmor L’David (Havu Ladonai)

We, Jan 21

4:20-4:40pm

Review Blessings after haftara

Review Torah Recessional

Prepare Havu Ladonai

Learn Havu Ladonai (and make sure you transition out of it with “Uvnucho Yomar” (2 words halfway down the next page).
We, Jan 28

4:20-4:40pm

Review Havu Ladonai

Ethan requested reviewing his Torah reading

Prepare Eitz Chayim Hi – Blumenthal

Learn Eitz Chayim Hi (Blumenthal melody)

Practice aliya 5 from the Torah side.

We, Feb 4

4:20-4:40pm

ZOOM (CJG ill)

Review Eitz Chayim Hi

Review Aliya 5 from the Torah side

Prepare Chatzi Kaddish before Musaf Amida (Heiche)

Take another week with Eitz Chayim Hi

Learn Chatzi Kaddish before Musaf Amida

We, Feb 11

4:20-4:40pm

Review Eitz Chayim Hi

Review Chatzi Kaddish before Musaf

Prepare Amida – Avot & G’vurot (has head start) (no Mashiv!), and K’dusha

learn Musaf K’dusha
We, Feb 18

4:20-4:40pm

Review Musaf to date

Prepare Full Kaddish after Amida

Learn L’Dor VaDor (Zim melody) – audio file 03

Learn Full Kaddish after Musaf Amida – audio file 04

We, Feb 25

4:20-4:40pm

Review L’Dor Vador

Review Full Kaddish (noting NOT for AY”T)

Review Aliya 5

Prepare aliya 7

Practice “L’eila min kol birchata v’shirata” (ie., non-Aseret Y’mei T’shuva).

Learn as much of Aliya 7 as you want/can. Resources are below. Table of audio file verse timings not yet available.

We, Mar 4

4:20-4:40pm

Review Aliya 7 to date

 

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Downloads (click to open, right-click to save to your computer)

Torah / Haftarah Trope (PDF | Torah Trope MP3 | Haftara Trope MP3)

Blessings Before and After Torah Reading (PDF | MP3 – Before | MP3 – After)

Weekday Sh’lach L’cha Aliya 1 – Num. 13:1-3 (PDF | MP3)

1 – 0:00 2 – 0:12 3 – 0:43

Weekday Sh’lach L’cha Aliya 2 – Num. 13:4-16 (PDF | MP3)

4 – 0:00 5 – 0:14 6 – 0:22 7 – 0:30 8 – 0:39 9 – 0:47 10 – 0:55
11 – 1:03 12 – 1:13 13 – 1:21 14 – 1:29 15 – 1:37 16 – 1:46

Weekday Sh’lach L’cha Aliya 3 – Num 13:17-20 (PDF | MP3)

NOTE THAT SHABBAT ALIYA 1 IS MADE UP OF ALL THREE WEEKDAY ALIYOT STRUNG TOGETHER, WITH REGULAR SOF PASUKs THROUGHOUT UNTIL THE END OF WEEKDAY ALIYA 3.

17 – 0:00 18 – 0:26 19 – 0:46 20 – 1:16

Sh’lach L’cha Aliya 5 – All in Num. 15 (PDF | MP3 | Sanctuary Scroll Photo)

8 – 0:00 9 – 0:16 10 – 0:35 11 – 0:50 12 – 1:11
13 – 1:24 14 – 1:41 15 – 2:11 16 – 2:38

Sh’lach L’cha Aliya 7 – All in Num. 15 (27-41) (PDF | MP3)

27 – 0:00 28 – 0:15 29 – 0:37 30 – 0:56 31 – 1:25
32 – 1:45 33 – 2:04 34 – 2:22 35 – 2:36 36 – 2:57
37 – 3:23 38 – 3:31 39 – 3:59 40 – 4:35 41 – 4:49

Sh’lach L’cha Maftir Aliya– All in Num. 15 (PDF | MP3)

37 – 0:00 38 – 0:14 39 – 0:40 40 – 1:14 41 – 1:29

Blessing before Haftara (PDF | MP3)

Haftarah Sh’lach L’cha – All in Joshua Ch 2 (PDF | MP3)

1 – 0:00 2 – 0:43 3 – 1:08 4 – 1:39 5 – 2:08 6 – 2:40
7 – 2:59 8 – 3:31 9 – 3:44 10 – 4:16 11 – 5:01 12 – 5:32
13 – 6:00 14 – 6:25 15 – 7:00 16 – 7:21 17 – 7:54 18 – 8:14
19 – 8:58 20 – 9:38 21 – 9:55 22 – 10:16 23 – 10:45 24 – 11:12

Blessings after Haftara, KBI-style (PDF | MP3)

#1, 1st half – 0:00 #1, 2nd half – 0:31 #2 – 1:11 #3 – 1:38 #4, 1st half – 2:37 #4, 2nd half – 3:06

Shabbat Morning Torah Service (PDFs | MP3s)

Shabbat Musaf Service – Heiche K’dusha (PDF | MP3)

 

Goals in order of priority

Blessings before and after Torah reading –

Torah Trope – DONE

Maftir aliya – DONE, including STA”M

Chamishi aliya – DONE, including STA”M

Chatzi Kaddish before Maftir – DONE

Haftara Trope – DONE

Blessing before Haftara – DONE

Haftara – DONE (and completely memorized, by verse number, without the sheet!)

Blessings after Haftara – DONE

Torah Processional – DONE

Torah Recessional – IN PROGRESS

Musaf (Heiche) – DONE

Aliya 7 (15 p’sukim, but 10 new plus maftir) – DONE

Aliya 1 (20 p’sukim) done as Shabbat Aliya 1 AND Weekday 3 aliyot – IN PROGRESS

D’var Torah (with Sue Potechin) –

Other items as time allows: Other Torah aliyot; Musaf; Hallel

 

Notes

Here are the Aliya breakdowns:

    1. 13:1-20 · 20 p’sukim  
    2. 13:21-14:7 · 20 p’sukim  
    3. 14:8-25 · 18 p’sukim  
    4. 14:26-15:7 · 27 p’sukim  
    5. 15:8-16 · 9 p’sukim  – Ethan
    6. 15:17-26 · 10 p’sukim  
    7. 15:27-41 · 15 p’sukim  
    8. maf: 15:37-41 · 5 p’sukim  – Ethan

Haftarah: Joshua 2:1-24 · 24 p’sukim – Ethan